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June 2026 | HER Collective Note
June's HER Collective Note explores the conversations that shape our future. Join us as we welcome Intergenerational Financial Advisor Janet Hum for an open discussion on building, protecting, and growing wealth with confidence. We're also celebrating a meaningful community milestone as HER Seat at the Table receives recognition through CMEE Hall of Fame nominations. Together, we're creating space for the conversations that matter most.

Connie Cay-Santos
Jun 23 min read


Grace Lee Boggs - A Legacy of Collective Change
During AAPI Heritage Month, we often celebrate milestones, visibility, and representation. But the story of Grace Lee Boggs asks something deeper of us: What does it mean to truly belong, and to build a world where everyone does? Grace Lee Boggs was more than an activist. She was a thinker, a bridge-builder, and a lifelong student of social change. Born in 1915 to Chinese immigrant parents, she spent over seven decades working alongside Black leaders, labor organizers, and co
erin4325
Jun 12 min read


May 2026 | HER Collective Note
This month, we invite you to reflect on the stories, traditions, and individuals who have shaped your journey, and how you continue to carry that forward in your leadership.

Connie Cay-Santos
May 63 min read


Kindness Is Free. Favours Are Not.
The Hidden Currency of “Hosted Experiences” in the Events Industry
Kindness is free. Favours are not. In an industry built on access, invitation, and experience, the line between generosity and obligation is often blurred. This piece explores the unspoken expectations behind hosted experiences—and why protecting your neutrality matters more than ever.

Connie Cay-Santos
Apr 303 min read


April 2026 | HER Collective Note
April invites us into a season of renewal, where growth begins with intention. As we embrace new possibilities, we continue to build spaces rooted in connection, belonging, and meaningful transformation.

Connie Cay-Santos
Apr 34 min read


The Strength of Quiet Leadership: Clarity Over Volume
A reflection on time as a currency, the clarity it brings, and what emerges when we choose alignment over urgency. After 18 months of intentional leadership, community building, and meaningful work, I’m opening the door to what’s next and inviting aligned conversations forward.

Connie Cay-Santos
Mar 173 min read


March 2026 | HER Collective Note
The March HER Collective Note celebrates International Women’s Month with community reflections, upcoming events, and new collaborations shaping the future of leadership in events.

Connie Cay-Santos
Mar 54 min read


FEB 2026 | HER Collective Note
February centers on legacy, leadership, and leading forward. From Black History Month to Lunar New Year, we reflect on the relationships, responsibility, and renewal that shape how we lead with intention.

Connie Cay-Santos
Feb 114 min read


Storytelling Is Important, But Value Is What Keeps People Watching
This post explores the challenges of balancing personal style with project goals, adapting narratives, and refining edits to better serve the audience, while sharing practical tips to make the editing process more intentional and streamlined.
erin4325
Jan 223 min read


A Love Letter to Time, and an Open Invitation Forward
A reflection on time as a currency, the clarity it brings, and what emerges when we choose alignment over urgency. After 18 months of intentional leadership, community building, and meaningful work, I’m opening the door to what’s next and inviting aligned conversations forward.

Connie Cay-Santos
Jan 214 min read


Quiet Leadership Beyond the Spotlight
Leadership is often associated with visibility, but impact does not always require a spotlight. This reflection explores quiet leadership, thoughtful recognition, and why honoring how people want to be acknowledged matters just as much as the acknowledgment itself.

Connie Cay-Santos
Jan 204 min read


The Art of Networking
Networking is more than showing up. When done with intention, it becomes a meaningful investment in trust, connection, and alignment. When done without clarity, it can drain time, energy, and confidence.

Connie Cay-Santos
Jan 133 min read


Change Makers See the Signs
Change makers recognize the signs when something no longer fits and have the courage to act before certainty arrives. This reflection explores why noticing misalignment matters and how purpose-driven action leads meaningful change.

Connie Cay-Santos
Jan 132 min read


Empowered Together
Empowered Together is a leadership practice rooted in inclusion, purpose, and community. This reflection explores why shared leadership matters and how intentional action, not titles, creates lasting impact.

Connie Cay-Santos
Jan 132 min read


The Seat and the Responsibility
A seat at the table is not just something to claim. It carries responsibility. Our experiences already shape the value we bring, and how we choose to occupy, grow into, or pass on our seats defines the kind of leaders we become.

Connie Cay-Santos
Jan 132 min read


Building Trust Is the Strategy
Trust is not a soft skill. It is the foundation that shapes leadership, partnerships, and meaningful experiences. Long before logistics begin, trust determines how people show up, collaborate, and create lasting impact.

Connie Cay-Santos
Jan 132 min read


JAN 2026 | HER Seat at the Table
A new year begins with focused momentum. This January, we’re setting intentions, creating space for clarity, and moving forward with purpose. Here’s what’s unfolding inside the HER Seat at the Table community as we step into 2026 together.

Connie Cay-Santos
Jan 122 min read
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